If u are using Brine then it does not need salting, If its Air dried then I would salt it because its easy to pick up bacteria. Giving a good rub down gives u some insurance that nasty little beasties dont get to the cheese, especially if by chance your wax cracks and has air leaks, or a bubble happens in the wax coating and gets popped later giving u a pinhole air leak.
1 tbsp/gall milk? I would be careful go with your taste, it might be too much, also depending the type of salt, they are not all the same strength.